kok putusin gue?

that was de title of a book that i recently have read....
it was indonesian chicklit! it was a nice one lho! recommended banget!
if i have to give it a score.... 9.8 out of 10 deh! 2 thumbs up buat Ninit Yunita, the writer!

the storie tells about how a girl gets over her x who asks for a break up on a V day! the guy just says that the girl is too kind en too good for him so that's why he steps back..... but then the girl feels that it is the magic of a relationship... everyone feels that their partner are too kind..... isn't so? well, she wants to get back to him... but then when she comes to his campus.... she finds out that his x cheats on her! she caught his x kissing another girl....
*i don't making up or make adjustment to it lho.... no offense if it somehow reflects someone's real experience :D*

well after all this is a typical girl power book -- but this one gives a great list of "tips mengatasi patah hati" which i wanna share with y'all especially my dear girl friends :D

here's the list:
~ it's okay to scrible over his photo! when u look over it once again, you would realize that he is not as gentLe as you have thought him to be.....
~ re-name his contact on your cellphone! he is not worth to be called "hooney" "yayank" "my prince charming" anymore... apalagi for what he has done to you... "setelah semua kelakuannya berselingkuh dan menyakiti hati mu, yakin dia masih pantas mendapat gelar kesayangan?" -- duuh bener2 direct quoting nih yang ini hehehehehehe
~ develop interest in shooting sport... en make use of his photos as the target!
~ please remember klo' keanu reeves is still the most gergous man in the world and collin farrell is still a single bad ass! then.. jessica alba is still bodylicious and jessica simpson just got divorced.... SO x loe itu bukan yang ter-guanteng... or yang tercantik--- masih banyak cowok and cewek available in the market!
~ have a new motto! no matter how cute and pretty ur x's new gf.... u are still cuter and prettier than her :D
~ don't drown urself in the sweet memories of your x!
~ "menghabiskan hidup dengan seseorang itu penting, tapi yang lebih penting lagi adalah dengan siapa kita menghabiskannya"
~ it's just normal to listen broken-heart songs hahahahahahhahaha klo gw bole suggest lagu2 glenn fredly banyak lho! dari january sampe sedih tak berujung... hiks hiks
~ prepare a box of tissue and a stick of inhaler -- in case you want to cry in the middle of the nite cos you miss him.... en cry as loud as you want! don't deny ur feelings
~ think again if you still want to consider your x as a romantic person... romantic en sweet-mouth are two different things!
~ MANJA kan diri anda to do sumthing that you have not done for long time! my suggestion are spa, saloon, en body wrap --- everything tat could make urself looks fabolous..... buat mantan kalian nyadar klo mereka udah buat KESALAHAN BESAR untuk mutusin loe...

maybe by now y'all wonder why i read such a book... i simply do not know.... i just took it from my shelf when i just was about to leave my apt to the airport last time catching up a flight to houston... maybe de red cover of this book just attracts me eyes......... no other singnificant reason! tapi this book really cute en dun to read sih hehehehehhehehe

just wanna dedicate this post to my 'PI trip' friend in Melbourne... hope you do well up there bro.... i am sure u deserve a better girl! then to my " pretty UIS" girls in Jakarta.. duwgh kalian itu cewek-cewek cantik.... ngak usah bingung klo putus... maybe mereka bukan jodoh kalian.... masih banyak cowok-cowok laen ngantri! hey.. lemme know klo mo nyalon... gw mo ikutan! i'll join de club deh hihhihihihihhihihi trus, for my "hula-hula" partner in SeattLe.. uda lha cewek kayak gituh ngak worth it loe minta balik terus.... mending cari yang laen yang lebih sabar dan ngerti elo lebih baik....... u'll find it someday....... well yeah someday.... somehow.... somewhere....... :)