this weekend is full of sharings.... three guys rang me for so called relationship chit-chat hohohohoho^^ they have similar problem actually.. they like girls but they just do know what to do... they complain "girls are so unpredicatble!" is it really tRue?!?!?!?!!! maybe yes, maybe no.. but it's just maybe *duh bubbLe is not helping!*
well.. gimana dunk - giRls emank jalan pikrinya beda ama co! when de guys say girls are so unpredicatble... we, girls, say that guys play too much tricks! we just don't know what r u guys expect from us with all of your actions. then, we are just confused how to respond... en many girls end up doing 'fishing' slash 'kiting'.. we play go and forth *iya-engga-iya-engga* when girls do this, it means we want you to do more -- giving us more clues of what are you really want.. hohohohohoho (let's call this bubbLe's analyis 1) afterall, there's always be 2 perspectives in any case!
here's come the analysis no. 2! girLs loves to be praised... selagi cewek bisa dipuja-puja terus.. yah cewek bakal 'jual mahal' for getting those praises! again, many girls just do another 'fishing' trick this time!! so, Sunway boy! optimist dikit dunk... she never missed ur calls lho ehem-ehem... wut do u guys think?? a girl always pick up a guy's call... isn't a good sign??? en it goes for all of you.... everyone plays their parts.. you play yours.. she plays hers.. hehehehehehehehe cuman honestly.. gw ngak ngerti deh dengan system fishing and layangan... why put ur faith in a game? never see the fun and the art of it! mau mau!!! engga engga!!! iya ngak sih??????
okay, now analysis no. 3. girls just want "certainity" - we just don't like floating and walking aimlessly... so if you guys can't give us affirmation, we just do fishing - kiting en other tricks all in once! we can go with the flow for sometimes... for the shake of fun, but after sumtimes we need need that cystal clear expectation for the future. i KNOW guys hate this!! this wut makes girls and guys r different... en when both of u can't handLe the pressure in this difference -- then i guess i hear "good~byes...." is it rite Mr. S?? ^hohohohohohohoho^
my buddie di SG asked me "How about going after your best friend?" i think that going beyond a friendship zone with ur best friend is the most beautiful thing that could ever happen in a relationship... but learning couple cases of my friends... ehmmmmm i don't think it's a great thing at all the times. YES - you already know the goods and the bads of your partner, but NO - are you wanting to risk all the friendship that both of u have already had?!?!?! it can't be denied deh pasti if u break up - the coming relationship wouldn't be de same.. there will be a gap.. rite?? c'mon 99% - it is! ehm.. smuanya it's your call -- if you think it would worth de joy over de risks.. why not? ;D
another common relationship problem, asked by someone yang lagi mabuk cinta-a-a-a hahahahahahahaa "nit, gimana yah klo ld?" Personally, i feel ld rel. is sux!! It's just hard not to have a face to face communication.. i guess the only solution for this is s-c-a-r-i-f-i-c-a-t-i-o-n!!! but in many cases this scarification is not happening... one is too prideful or any other reasons~~ it's hard to do LD unless both of you have commitment and certainity for the future. okah enuff recap--- no defense to anyone who has different thoughts on the issues... if u dun mind please share it--- sharing is wut make us stronger and wiser :)Love can be a many splendored thing
Can't deny the joy it brings
A dozen roses, diamond rings
Dreams for sale and fairy tales
It'll make you hear a symphony
And you just want the world to see
But like a drug that makes you blind,
It'll fool ya every time
The trouble with love is
It can tear you up inside
Make your heart believe a lie
It's stronger than your pride
The trouble with love is
It doesn't care how fast you fall
And you can't refuse the call
See, you got no say at all
